A Heartfelt Note Before You Begin

I  want  to  make  it  clear  that  this website  wasn’t created to determine who loves their child or who doesn't, or to label anyone as a narcissist. My genuine intention is to offer support to those who feel unloved by their parents. I deeply understand the magnitude of that pain and the journey of accepting the reality that every hurtful action, every lie, and every attempt to damage you was intentional. Facing the reality of it being intentional,alone, has been one of the hardest journeys I have ever experienced, and I don’t believe anyone deserves to go through it alone.

If, like me, you’ve felt unloved your entire life, or even just for as long as you can remember..

There comes a moment when you realize how many people in your life had the opportunity to treat you with the same kindness and respect you gave them—or to rise above and be the bigger person—but instead chose selfishness and offered little to no value. It's in that moment you’re compelled to face reality as it truly is.

Have you ever heard the saying: “There are moments that define your life—life before that moment, and life after it. This is one of those moments.”

  If you ever find yourself questioning whether or not your parents love you, or anyone in your life that has made you question their love, that alone may be the first sign the love you received is either conditional, or isn't love at all. To gain clarity, take time for self-reflection. Look back on your past experiences and consider whether the ways you were hurt, felt intentional or unintentional. The answer lies in what you discover.

If you’ve expressed how someone’s actions are hurting you multiple times and they continue the same behavior, it’s a clear sign they don’t value your feelings. Those who genuinely care about you will take your pain seriously and won’t repeatedly dismiss your emotions.

 

Embrace each day with a heart full of gratitude and a mind open to endless possibilities. Your strength lies in your resilience, your beauty in your kindness, and your power in your unwavering belief that the best is yet to come.

 

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     I dedicate my journey to none other than God because, without Him, I wouldn’t have made it this far. He has never left my side, even when I doubted Him. I expected Him to abandon me, just like I felt abandoned by my parents when I needed them the most. But God isn’t like that—He’s always been there, even when I couldn’t see it.

     I owe my life to Him and only Him because He has saved me time and again since the day I was born. He continues to save me today, guiding me toward becoming the best version of myself. When I was at my lowest, He came back into my life and reminded me of the power of humility. He taught me that life isn’t about having the best of everything or living perfectly; it’s about having a home—wherever that may be—and sharing it with people who matter. What truly counts is being together, not the material things we chase.

     He has never stopped showing me His love and grace. I wish I could say I’ve always returned the favor—not because I’ve ever stopped believing in Him, but because I’ve let life’s hardships weigh me down at times. After fighting my whole life for everything, I’ve grown tired. I don’t crave what most people seem to want. Sure, money would help, but it will never fulfill me. What I truly long for are the things money can’t buy: love, time, and honesty. Even if the truth hurts, I’d rather face it than live in the comfort of lies.

     I didn’t come to the conclusion that my parents didn’t love me lightly or impulsively. It took years of examining every possible clue, replaying moments in my mind, and questioning my own perspective to make sure I wasn’t misunderstanding or overreacting.

    I am a patient person, but I don’t have endless time to wait for someone to realize what it means to truly be a parent. Children deserve active, engaged love that shapes their growth and resilience. Allowing anyone—especially a child—to settle into harmful comfort or neglect their potential is one of life’s greatest mistakes. Growth only happens when we’re challenged to be better.

     For a long time, I feared hearing God’s voice, expecting Him to come down on me with the same rage and harshness my father did. But I’ve come to realize that God’s voice is nothing like that. He is the gentle presence in my mind, softly encouraging me to try again, no matter how many times I’ve stumbled.

 

     I am dedicated to providing support, education, and resources for those affected by narcissistic abuse. I launched this site in December 2022, but my journey of understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) began in 2021.

     

                     

Thank you for visiting, and I hope the resources here can help you on your journey to healing and reclaiming your life 🖤

Important Note:

    While this site focuses on the effects of narcissistic abuse, similar issues may also arise from other forms of trauma including those unrelated to parents, family members, or caregivers. The information shared here aims to support healing and understanding for anyone affected by such experiences. 

You Are Not Alone 

 

     I know what it’s like to feel like you have no one—to carry the weight of your pain in silence. Narcissistic abuse leaves scars that can’t always be seen, and it can leave you feeling empty inside, like you’re barely surviving. Yet, the tears still come, a reminder that somewhere within, you’re still fighting to heal, to make sense of it all.

 

I want you to know that I’m here. If you need someone to listen, someone who understands the unique pain and confusion that comes with this kind of abuse, I can be that person for you. You don’t have to face this alone.

 

Whether you need to vent, make sense of your experiences, or just feel heard for once in your life, I’m here to hold space for you. Together, we can find clarity and begin the journey to reclaim the light that’s still within you.

 

Because you matter ♡  Your story matters ♡  And healing is possible ♡

       For me, learning about narcissistic personality disorder is more than just a way to make money or a topic to blog about—it’s a deeply personal journey. This disorder has affected my entire life in profound ways, taking a toll on so many aspects of who I am. While I know that, according to research, narcissists are made, not born, it can be prevented. The information online often feels clouded by SEO-driven content that lacks real substance. After years of searching, what determines whether a person becomes a narcissist or doesn't, I can finally say I have my answer. it was only through ChatGPT that I finally found clear, meaningful answers.

I want to recognize the courage it takes to seek answers and understanding. Just by being here, you've already taken a brave step toward reclaiming your life.

          I want this to be a safe and supportive space where people can confidently identify the narcissists in their lives, whether they are family members or others outside their family circle.

          More importantly, I want to shed light on the connection between autoimmune diseases and narcissistic abuse. This should be a place where individuals feel heard, validated, and understood, especially when dealing with chronic pain caused by invisible illnesses or autoimmune conditions. As someone who lives with rheumatoid arthritis and osteoarthritis, I know firsthand how dismissive people can be. It’s disheartening to hear remarks like, "Oh, one of my relatives has arthritis too," as if it minimizes the pain or the struggle.

          I am done trying to convince others of the severity of my pain or worrying about whether they believe me. What truly matters is that I believe me, and that belief is enough.

 

         I hope to inspire anyone who, like me, struggles with self-doubt to find the courage to speak up. My mission is to share clear insights and examples that empower others to break free from the control and manipulation of narcissists, once and for all.

  • Remember whose peace you're keeping by staying silent
  • Don't let anyone keep you voiceless
  • Tell your story whether it be public or private
  • You deserve to be HEARD, SEEN, & VALUED
  •  You Matter !!!
  • Don't ever let anyone tell you any different !

          I wish people came with a visible mark, making it easy to reveal their true nature—whether genuine or fake, intentional or accidental. But perhaps their true character reveals itself in time. It becomes evident when they either take accountability for the harm they've caused or choose to remain a coward, denying any wrongdoing.

          When surrounded by toxic people, we create a version of reality that feels safe or aligns with what we’ve been conditioned to believe, rather than seeing people—or situations—for what they truly are. It’s a survival mechanism, but it can blind us to manipulation, gaslighting, abuse, or exploitation. However, stepping away—whether by cutting contact completely or simply taking a break from their constant presence—provides the emotional and psychological distance needed to see the truth.

Since launching, I've been touched by countless stories from brave individuals who’ve found hope and healing here. Together, we’re building a supportive, understanding community.

I invite you to connect with me—whether you have questions, need support, or simply want to share your story. This space is here for you.