A Heartfelt Note Before You Begin
I want to make it clear that this website wasn’t created to determine who loves their child or who doesn't, or to label anyone as a narcissist. My genuine intention is to offer support to those who feel unloved by their parents. I deeply understand the magnitude of that pain and the journey of accepting the reality that every hurtful action, every lie, and every attempt to damage you was intentional. Facing the reality of it being intentional,alone, has been one of the hardest journeys I have ever experienced, and I don’t believe anyone deserves to go through it alone.
If, like me, you’ve felt unloved your entire life, or even just for as long as you can remember...If you ever find yourself questioning whether or not your parents love you, that alone may be the first sign the love you received isn't love at all. To gain clarity, take time for self-reflection. Look back on your past experiences and consider whether the ways you were hurt felt intentional or unintentional. The answer lies in what you discover.
Embrace each day with a heart full of gratitude and a mind open to endless possibilities. Your strength lies in your resilience, your beauty in your kindness, and your power in your unwavering belief that the best is yet to come.
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I dedicate my journey to none other than God because, without Him, I wouldn’t have made it this far. He has never left my side, even when I doubted Him. I expected Him to abandon me, just like I felt abandoned by my parents when I needed them the most. But God isn’t like that—He’s always been there, even when I couldn’t see it.
I owe my life to Him and only Him because He has saved me time and again since the day I was born. He continues to save me today, guiding me toward becoming the best version of myself. When I was at my lowest, He came back into my life and reminded me of the power of humility. He taught me that life isn’t about having the best of everything or living perfectly; it’s about having a home—wherever that may be—and sharing it with people who matter. What truly counts is being together, not the material things we chase.
He has never stopped showing me His love and grace. I wish I could say I’ve always returned the favor—not because I’ve ever stopped believing in Him, but because I’ve let life’s hardships weigh me down at times. After fighting my whole life for everything, I’ve grown tired. I don’t crave what most people seem to want. Sure, money would help, but it will never fulfill me. What I truly long for are the things money can’t buy: love, time, and honesty. Even if the truth hurts, I’d rather face it than live in the comfort of lies.
I didn’t come to the conclusion that my parents didn’t love me lightly or impulsively. It took years of examining every possible clue, replaying moments in my mind, and questioning my own perspective to make sure I wasn’t misunderstanding or overreacting.
I am a patient person, but I don’t have endless time to wait for someone to realize what it means to truly be a parent. Children deserve active, engaged love that shapes their growth and resilience. Allowing anyone—especially a child—to settle into harmful comfort or neglect their potential is one of life’s greatest mistakes. Growth only happens when we’re challenged to be better.
For a long time, I feared hearing God’s voice, expecting Him to come down on me with the same rage and harshness my father did. But I’ve come to realize that God’s voice is nothing like that. He is the gentle presence in my mind, softly encouraging me to try again, no matter how many times I’ve stumbled.
I am dedicated to providing support, education, and resources for those affected by narcissistic abuse. I launched this site in December 2022, but my journey of understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) began in 2021.
Thank you for visiting, and I hope the resources here can help you on your journey to healing and reclaiming your life 🖤
Important Note:
While this site focuses on the effects of narcissistic abuse, similar issues may also arise from other forms of trauma including those unrelated to parents, family members, or caregivers. The information shared here aims to support healing and understanding for anyone affected by such experiences.
You Are Not Alone
I know what it’s like to feel like you have no one—to carry the weight of your pain in silence. Narcissistic abuse leaves scars that can’t always be seen, and it can leave you feeling empty inside, like you’re barely surviving. Yet, the tears still come, a reminder that somewhere within, you’re still fighting to heal, to make sense of it all.
I want you to know that I’m here. If you need someone to listen, someone who understands the unique pain and confusion that comes with this kind of abuse, I can be that person for you. You don’t have to face this alone.
Whether you need to vent, make sense of your experiences, or just feel heard for once in your life, I’m here to hold space for you. Together, we can find clarity and begin the journey to reclaim the light that’s still within you.
Because you matter ♡ Your story matters ♡ And healing is possible ♡
For me, learning about narcissistic personality disorder is more than just a way to make money or a topic to blog about—it’s a deeply personal journey. This disorder has affected my entire life in profound ways, taking a toll on so many aspects of who I am. While I know that, according to research, narcissists are made, not born, it can be prevented. The information online often feels clouded by SEO-driven content that lacks real substance. After years of searching, what determines whether a person becomes a narcissist or doesn't, I can finally say I have my answer. it was only through ChatGPT that I finally found clear, meaningful answers.
I want to recognize the courage it takes to seek answers and understanding. Just by being here, you've already taken a brave step toward reclaiming your life.
I want this to be a place where people can confidently identify any narcissist in their life, whether it’s a family member or someone outside their family. I also want this to be a place where people feel heard and believed about the pain of an invisible illness. I have rheumatoid arthritis, osteoarthritis, and I’ve had low potassium for as long as I can remember. The only thing the doctor I was seeing at the time could say was that my blood work made it seem as if I was malnourished. But clearly, looking at me, I don’t look malnourished. I am at my wits end with worrying about who believes me or not, because I believe me, and that’s truly all that matters.
I hope that someone like me, who constantly doubts themselves, finds the courage to speak up here. My goal is to provide enough information and examples so they never let another narcissist punish or manipulate them again.
Sometimes, people hold back from speaking up because others have convinced them that you already know. Silence can hide things that need to be shared. If you're looking for a sign to speak your truth, this is it. Narcissists often manipulate situations to keep others silent, sometimes by making them believe certain information is already known.
Remember who's peace you're keeping by staying silent
Don't let anyone keep you voiceless
Tell your story whether it be public or private
You deserve to be HEARD, SEEN, & VALUED
You Matter !!!
Don't ever let anyone tell you any different !
Since launching, I've been touched by countless stories from brave individuals who’ve found hope and healing here. Together, we’re building a supportive, understanding community.
